A program for those wrestling with societal norms and self-deception
Discover strength in authenticity, relinquish detrimental habits, and reconcile with desired self-expression.
Finally Kevin! LLC
Featured in leading publications like CEO Magazine and Luxury Lifestyle Magazine, Kevin Loeffler (they/them) is the Founder and CEO of Finally Kevin!, an Inspirational Gender Expression & Identity Coach, and author of the upcoming book, "Finally Kevin - The True Story of a Gender Nonconforming Femme Recovering Meth Addict (Spring 2025). Kevin's unique journey allows audiences to understand what Gender Expression & Gender Identity is and, just as importantly, what it is not while empowering Gen Xers and Baby Boomers to be their true, authentic, transparent selves. For almost 50 years, Kevin lived as the person they thought their parents, wives, children, and employers wanted them to be, never daring to be their authentic selves in front of any of them. Their heartwarming story of choosing to live as their transparent self by announcing their gender identity to the world at the age of 63 has landed them media and speaking engagements, including Other Parents Like Me and the Shameless Mom Academy Podcast.
This journey is for you if you're :
Individuals in Gen X and Baby Boomer generations dealing with gender expression and identity struggles.
Those seeking to live authentically in all areas of life and eliminate shame or fear.
People wanting to shed unhealthy coping mechanisms for genuine daily self-expression.
This journey might not suit you if you're :
Those unwilling to explore or address issues of gender expression and identity.
Individuals who aren't ready to commit to changes in gender expression or to dispel unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Gen Z or younger individuals not facing these specific gender identity and expression struggles.
Explore and identify personal desires for gender expression.
Begin the path towards living authentically.
Embark on the path towards your true identity. This module is designed to help you distinguish between societal influence and your personal gender expression desires. By focusing on authenticity, you will begin to uncover and understand the core of your true self.
Initiate tangible changes in gender expression.
Heighten confidence for daily interaction.
Unleash your potential for growth and change in the realm of gender expression. This module provides strategic steps to tactfully initiate transformation, fostering the courage and confidence needed to embody your true self in daily life.
Power of Empowerment
Development of an inspiring vision of gender expression.
Elimination of unhealthy coping behaviors.
Regain control over your identity and feelings. This module is geared towards fostering empowerment, laying out the tools needed to form a personal vision of gender expression that motivates and inspires, and to replace harmful coping mechanisms with healthier alternatives.
Establish a safe and meaningful gender expression plan.
Achieve readiness to express gender authentically.
It is never too late or too soon to harness the power of courage. This module is designed to help you create a concrete plan for safe, meaningful gender expression changes while empowering you to have the readiness to express your gender authentically in all areas of life.
Nurture resilience against societal pressures.
Adapt to evolving gender expression.
Get ready to embrace freedom, liberate yourself from societal pressures, and live as your true self. This module fosters an environment where you can safely navigate adjustments to your evolving gender expression, helping you develop resilience and maintain authenticity in the face of external challenges.